ABC of true happiness....

A- ACCEPT
Accept others for who they are and for the choices they've made even if you have difficulty understanding their beliefs, motives or action.

B- BREAK AWAY
Break away from everything that stands in the way of what you hope to accomplish with your life.

C- CREATE
Create a family of friends whom you can share your hopes, dreams, sorrows and happiness with.

D- DECIDE
Decide that you'll be successful and happy come what may and good things will find you. the roadblocks are only minor obstacles along the way

E- EXPLORE
Explore and experiment! the world has much to offer, and you have much to give. Everytime you try something new, you'll learn more about yourself.

F- FORGIVE
Forgive and forget. Grudges only weigh you down and inspire unhappiness and grief. Soar above it, and remember that everyone makes mistakes.

G- GROW
Leave the childhood monsters behind, they can no longer hold you down or stand in your way

H- HOPE
Hope for the best and never forget that anything is possible as long as you remain dedicated to the task.

I- IGNORE
Ignore the negative voice inside your head. Focus instead on your goals and remember your accomplishments. Your past success is only a small inkling of what the future holds.

J- JOURNEY
Journey to new worlds, new possiblities, by remaining open-minded. Try to learn something new everyday, and you'll grow.

K- KNOW
Know that no matter how bad things seem, they'll always get better. The warmth of spring always follow the harshest winter.

L-LOVE
Let love fill your heart instead of hate. When hate is in your heart, there's room for nothing else, but when love is your heart, there's room for endless happiness.

M- MANAGE
Manage your time and your expenses wisely and you'll suffer less stress and worry. Then you'll be able to focus on the important things in life.

N- NOTICE
Never ignore the poor, infirm, helpless, weak or suffering. Offer your assistance when possible and always, your kindess and understanding.

O- OPEN
Open your eyes and take in all the beauty around you. Even during the worst of times, there's still much to be thankful for.

P- PLAY
Never fogrt to have fun along the way. Success means nothing without happiness.

Q- QUESTION
Questions, ask as many as you can, because we're here to learn.

R- RELAX
Refuse to let worry and stress rule your life, and remember that things always have a way of working out in the end.


S- SHARE
Share your talents, skills, knowledge and times with others. Everything that you invest in others will return to you many times over

T- TRY
Even when your dreams seem impossible to reach, try anyway. You'll be amazed by what you can accomplish.

U- USE
Use your gifts to your best ability. Talent thats wasted has no value. Talent thats used will bring unexpected rewards.

V- VALUE
Value the friends and family members who've supported and encouraged you, and be there for the as well.

W- WORK
Work hard everyday to be the best person you can be, but never feel guilty if you fall short of your goals. Every sunrise offers a second chance.

X- XRAY
Xray the hearts of those around you before trusting,judging and yielding.

Y- YIELD
Yield to committment. If you stay on track and remain dedicated, you'll find success at the end of the road.

Z- ZOOM
Zoom to a happy place when bad memories or sorrow rear its ugly head. Let nothing interfere with your goals. Instead, focus on your abilities, your dreams, and a brighter tomorrow.

There!!!! you have it!!!! read, practise and enjoy!!!!

Portharcourt things....where will u press ya hand??

Good morning folks

So everyone is outside casting their votes and I'm inside updating my blog. Last i checked ,i promised to update on my trip to portharcourt, and like i was saying that town has really changed for the better.

First of let me give a big kudos to Governor Rotimi Amaechi to whom this feat is attributed to. Driving down nta mgbuoba road like some two years ago and you'll regret what brought you to portharcourt. The dirt and mud and sunk cars will literally send shivers down your spine. It was really that bad. But that's no more, instead now there are dualised roads with little green trees in the middle. Trees!! hehe, talk of trying to be abuja overnight!

Then I was saying I couldn't recognise elelenwo street on new g.r.a. There used to be this very famous video club, Thrills, that we all wanted to rent movies from and ''feel among''. I asked and was told that Thrills Video Club had long disappeared. In short everything had disappeared, to be replaced with newer correct and up to date buildings that will also soon disappear. That's life.

Moral behind the story: Nothing is permanent, but change is constant ..... live your life, make someone happy, Smile a lot, Do the best you can and fret not for what's not within your reach.Because at the end of the day it will all pass away, to be replaced again, and again, and again. That's the circle called life....

Sooo... in the meantitme y'all dont forget to go out and press ya hand on the umblerra, cos broom and corn wont save you on that rainy day.....*winks*

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